Saturday, June 15, 2013

How Memory Works: 20 Psychological Insights

How Memory Works: 20 Psychological Insights

1
How Memory Works: 10 Things Most People Get Wrong
http://www.spring.org.uk/2012/10/how-memory-works-10-things-most-people-get-wrong.php

2
Why People’s Names Are So Hard to Remember
http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/12/why-peoples-names-are-so-hard-to-remember.php

3
How Memories are Distorted and Invented: Misattribution
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/02/how-memories-are-distorted-and-invented.php

4
Memory Improved 20% by Nature Walk
http://www.spring.org.uk/2009/01/memory-improved-20-by-nature-walk.php

5
Absent-Mindedness: A Blessing in Disguise?
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/01/absent-mindedness-blessing-in-disguise.php

6
Mind Pops: Memories That Come From Nowhere
http://www.spring.org.uk/2012/11/mind-pops-memories-that-come-from-nowhere.php

7
How Quickly We Forget: The Transience of Memory
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/01/how-quickly-we-forget-transience-of.php

8
Reconstructing the Past: How Recalling Memories Alters Them
http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/02/reconstructing-the-past-how-recalling-memories-alters-them.php

9
Can Doodling Improve Memory and Concentration?
http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/01/can-doodling-improve-memory-and-concentration.php

10
On the Tip-of-the-Tongue: Blocked Memories
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/01/on-tip-of-tongue-blocked-memories.php

11
Six Memory Myths
http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/08/memory-test-whats-your-score.php

12
Memory Improved By Saying Words Aloud
http://www.spring.org.uk/2010/06/memory-improved-by-saying-words-aloud.php

13
Infant Memory Works From Very Early
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/05/infant-memory-works-from-very-early.php

14
Memories Are Made of This
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/10/memories-are-made-of-this.php

15
Memory Enhanced by a Simple Break After Reading
http://www.spring.org.uk/2012/08/memory-enhanced-by-a-simple-break-after-reading.php

16
The Persistence of Memory
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/02/persistence-of-memory.php

17
7 Simple Ways to Improve Your Memory Without Any Training
http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/05/7-simple-ways-to-improve-your-memory-without-any-training.php

18
How the Consistency Bias Warps Our Personal and Political Memories
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/02/how-consistency-bias-warps-our-personal.php

19
The Temporal Doppler Effect: Why The Future Feels Closer Than The Past
http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/03/the-temporal-doppler-effect-why-the-future-feels-closer-than-the-past.php

20
Implanting False Memories: Lost in the Mall & Paul Ingram
http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/02/implanting-false-memories-lost-in-mall.php

http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/06/how-memory-works-20-psychological-insights.php

How Memory Works: 20 Psychological Insights

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Find out how memory twists, pops, distorts, persists and decays, along with the odd tip on how to improve it.

Korean universities Teaching Jobs

I don't know about the document you're referring to, but I know that a Master's will make you more employable. Particularly as Korean universities are already planning or making cuts in their staffs (including professors) and programmes (majors/courses).
If you want to teach English, an MA or MEd in English, linguistics, applied linguistics, or TESOL/TEFL would be most valuable, I believe. I know some people who only have Master's degrees and teach in other subjects at universities, but I think these jobs will become rarer as well.
This is mainly speculation, of course, but I know for a fact that cuts are happening or coming in a number of Korean universities because of the decline in the birth rate which will lead to reduced enrollments by somewhere between 2017 and 2020.

I agree with Mathew that uni positions will soon be hard to come by, and already have become quite competitive. Our university has already added a requirement that candidates need two years teaching experience at the university level in addition to an MA, and we are still flooded with qualified applications. Currently, an MA via a distance program can be sufficient, but preference is still given to those who get MAs through traditional programs.

As I have come to understand things, a master's degree is required for advancement into the professor rank (E-1), however, one may still be hired by a university at a level below that, e.g., an instuctor under an E-2 visa. The greatest asset for an entry level hire is not always the master's degree but rather university equivalent years of experience. Once a person has at least 2 years of experience they may seek a teaching position at a uni. Unfortunately, univeraities do not include hakwon experience when calculating the required years of experience a candidate has at the time they apply for a professorship. Hakwon experience is included in the calculation of required years toward an instructor position though.
This blog has run a series of interviews that you might find helpful. http://www.alienteachers.com/1/post/2013/05/ma-tesolapplied-linguistics-interview-1-with-tyson-seburnt.html

Monday, June 3, 2013

KISS HER THE RIGHT WAY

KISS HER THE RIGHT WAY

There's a right way to kiss her for the first time. I recommend:
- bringing your heads closer together
- using your hand to tilt her head slightly (like in the movies)
- putting your lips on hers softly and relaxed
- following her lead with the kiss for a few seconds and then pulling away
This will be a knockout kiss for her that will make her want more.

What Makes a Man Attractive To Korean Women?

What Makes a Man
Attractive To Korean Women?

Wondering what makes a man attractive to a korean woman?
First let's understand what makes men attractive to women in general.
After years of studying male-female attraction this is what I've discovered:
Women value a man's
• Maturity
• Masculinity
• Mindset
• Mission
Attractive men have been able to attract women by indirectly demonstrating these qualities. Showing that you have these 4 characteristics is as important as having them.
Remember what David Deangelo said: "Attraction is not a choice."

What Makes A Man Attractive?

Maturity Women are attracted to more mature men. Now this doesn't mean 'old' men…at least not physically.
It refers to their level of mental and emotional maturity.
Are you a man who cries at the first sign of stress?
Do you depend on your woman for emotional needs?
Do you let your ego get the better of you all the time?
Or do you control it?
Or can you stand on your own two feet? Are you responsible about your life and how you act? Do you find yourself able to cope with life's challenges and deserve to live a happy life?
More importantly: Are you a responsible man?
Masculinity A woman is naturally attracted to a masculine man. This doesn't mean growing a big beard and not showering.
It means knowing and accepting your desires as a man. You are attracted to women and make no excuses about it. A masculine man is an active player in life. When you want something you get it.
Are you? Masculinity is a core element of what makes a man attractive.
Mindset Do you take life too seriously or can you roll with the punches? Women are attracted to men who have a powerful and positive mindset.
Are you optimistic about the future? Or do you bring everyone down with doom and gloom? Would you be able to keep a clear and focused head when your world is crumbling?
Mission Every man has a mission that they must discover. A woman is attracted to a man on a mission. What are your life goals? Where are you going? What do you want to change about the world?
So now that you know what makes a man attractive? How can you display these traits? Do you just tell a woman?
Not at all! The best way is to implicitly display them!

Telltale Signs that Make a Man Attractive

What are some things you display your attractiveness?
Your actions - When you want something are you doing it? You want a Korean woman but are you even approaching her?
Your bodylanguage - Do you slouch like a submissive man? Or do you stand tall and erect like a dominant man?
Your body - Are you in good shape? Does your body show that you're in charge of it? How's your fashion?
Your voice - Do you speak with a voice of confidence? Or do you sound like you're whispering?
Your status - Do you have a leadership job? Are you on a job with a mission?
Your words - Do you talk about light and playful things? Or do you always talk about politics or religion?
For more on how to use humor to attract women from Korea I recommend clicking on the link.
These are some of the implicit ways to show what makes a man attractive.

Display These Traits To Attract Korean Women

Korean women are different than Western women. For one thing they aren't as mature or independent because of their collective upbringing.
That being said they are still attracted to a man with these traits no matter his ethnicity. For more on how to attract women from Korea simply click on the link.
'Attraction' can be your best tool to bring Korean women (or women in general) into your life.
Remember - 'attraction' is not a choice! ;-)

Could You Attract Younger Women From Korea WITH Your Age?

Could You Attract Younger Women
From Korea WITH Your Age?

Discover how to attract younger women from Korea thanks to your age and enjoy an emotionally fulfilling relationship!
Attract younger women and satisfy those natural urges!

Women from Korean in their 20s and 30s are beautiful and full of life.

What's great news for you is that you can!

Many young Korean women are seeking

• something new and exciting

• someone with experience

• someone more mature

Being a lot older than her brings her many things.

For a lot of beautiful Korean women you're the ticket to a happy relationship!
The best part is that they're looking for someone like you as well. This is important because the young woman who caught your eye might be begging to herself that you'd start a conversation before.

So let's look into how you're just what she's looking for.

Attract Younger Women With Novelty!

Being a foreigner for her is a novelty.

Being an older foreigner is something she's only dreamed about!

I've personally been with one Korean woman who told me she fantasized about older men.

She said she liked the 'Sean Connery' types.

Rest easy - I didn't look like Sean Connery either. ;-)

By being older you play a role in her fantasy.

In fact you make it come true to those who want to be with an older man.

Attract Younger Women With Your Experience

This isn't just about your experience with women and in bed. Granted she does want to be with an older man because he offers those things to her.

It's also about your life experiences. You can share with her the adventure that life has been for you. She wants to hear it. For her life is a fascinating things.

By being older than her you can share with her your stories and wisdom.

Think that you don't have anything to share? You bet you do

When was your favorite year and why?

Share that with her.

Share your journey and how it's made you the man you are today. She'll love you for it!

Attract Younger Women With Your Maturity

I'm not just talking about being more "mature" than her physically. Even though this is something she enjoys it's only a part of the picture.

A lot of hot Korean women love being with an older man because he's more stable and reliable. A lot of the younger guys are more likely to play around and leave her.

You give her the gift of security and feeling safe in your arms. Younger guys can't really give that to her even if they wanted to.

She also knows that she's quite a catch for you too. This ironically helps you. If she knows that you're grateful for being with her then you're more likely to stick around.

For Korean women being with someone who'll stick around is VITAL because of their lowered status in Korean society.

Can You Attract Any Young Woman?

Of course not.

Many younger Korean women won't want to be with an older man. At the same time many younger Korean women don't want to be with a younger man.

If you're serious about having a young woman in your life I recommend doing what it takes to find the ones who are into you.

For more tips to date younger women I recommend clicking on the link.

Have fun! ;-)

How To Send a Sexual Message Covertly To Korean Women!

How To Send a Sexual Message
Covertly To Korean Women!

In a strict society like Korea's knowing how to send a sexual message covertly is VITAL.

Women are extremely sexual and Korean women are no exception!

So how can you make seducing a Korean woman more easy for you and adventurous for her?

I recommend:

• wearing revealing or sexual clothes

• saying a few sexual jokes or sexual double-speak

• touching her intimately from the beginning

Once you can do these things then sexually seducing a beautiful Korean woman becomes fun for everyone. You'll also get to know each other more 'intimately. ;-)

Wear Sexual Clothing

Note that wearing revealing or sexual clothing isn't the same as not wearing anything at all. ;-)

If you want to send a strong sexual message I recommend wearing clothing that shows your sexual nature.

Tight jeans or T-shirt is one way. Wearing an opened up shirt is another. Having a handcuff chain is a STRONG way of showing your sexual nature.

Your clothes must do the job of showing that you're a sexual being. That way when she sees you she will either:

• walk away because she doesn't want to be seduced or chatted up

• stay and let you chat her up because she likes what she sees

You can save time and energy by sticking with seducing Korean women who do the latter.

Make Sexual Jokes

Another great way to send a sexual message covertly is by putting it in a normal conversation.

For example if she's eating a banana you can say "You like bananas inside you I think. That's good!

It's good for your health. Isn't it too big for your mouth?" ;-)

Or if it's a hot day and she's sweating you can say "You look wet.

I'm sorry I have that effect on women. ;-)"

Making sexual jokes and double speak like this works because it makes her laugh and she begins to feel sexual.

Of if she doesn't like it and acts repulsed then she probably doesn't want to be seduced anyway. In that case you can either walk away to seduce another woman or let her walk away.

Whatever happens - you win.
You can do this with texts and messages but be careful. Texts and online messages don't send your tone. If you send a text it's easier for her to take it the wrong way.

For example if I send the message: "You like bananas I think." She can take it literally and not get it. Granted I could add emoticons but still. I bet the example above even took time for you TOO to get the sexual joke.

The BEST way to send sexy messages is offline.

Touch Her Intimately...

Touching her is a POWERFUL sexual message. It shows that you're comfortable with your sexuality and with 'touch'.

If you're comfortable with your sexuality then she will begin to be too. Or rather she will be comfortable with showing her sexual side with you.

If you're a touchy-feel guy then she won't be surprised later on when you make a move. In fact she will welcome it because you've made it obvious to her that you're that type of guy.

This is where a lot of guys make mistakes. They don't get physical at all and then JUMP at physical intimacy. This freaks the women out and leaves the men alone and confused.

By touching her from the beginning you're guaranteeing that she'll feel comfortable with you touching her more.

Of course start with socially appropriate places like the upper arm and shoulders and work your way around as you get more intimate.

Let HER Send You Sexual Messages

If you're doing it right and she wants to be seduced then she'll start to send you sexual messages too.

Keep in mind that Korean women are not as sexually overt as women from your country (unless you come from Saudi Arabia.)

So you might want to work a little harder or go to a more private place before she will allow herself to send you messages (ie: touch you and tease you.) ;-)

Whatever happens have fun!

Why Use Sexual Body Language For Seducing Korean Women?

Why Use Sexual Body Language
For Seducing Korean Women?

The #1 tool you can use to seduce women is sexual body language.
It does more than break through the language barrier.
Knowing how to non-verbally communicate your sexual intent is powerful when done well.
Rest easy: Soon you'll discover why body language is powerful and how to use it successfully.
You'll soon be filtering through ladies who will waste your time more quickly.
You'll also be sexually communicating with the women who want to be seduced.

Sexual Body Language Communicates Your Sexuality

If you're comfortable with your sexuality and sexual desires then your body will show it.
It's not about being naked or wearing a few sexual ornaments. It's about poising yourself as a man who's comfortable with his sexual nature.
Think of Brad Pitt as a great example. His body language does more than show his sexuality.
It also shows that he's comfortable with it.
So is just having the right poise and look enough to seduce a woman? Not exactly.
You can make it more powerful in the right situations.

When Sexual Body Language Works Best

Have you ever had a woman do or say something that you really liked? This is the best time to use sexy body language.
The next time a Korean woman says or does something you enjoy I recommend telling in a sexy way that you like that she said (such n such).
At the same time give her a look like you just want to make love to her there and then.
It sets the frame that your sexuality is a reward for her good behavior. She will then associate your sexual intent with her good behavior. So it will become a reward for her.
Who doesn't like rewards? ;-)

How To Make Sexual Body Language More Effective

The #1 mistake guys make is to either constantly show sexy body language or to not show any at all.
Doing the first thing makes those guys come across as perverts.
Doing the second thing makes them come across as 'nice guys who'd make good friends'.
To get the BEST results I recommend only displaying your sexual desires when she does or says something you like.
In addition to that you can mix it up with casual talk and showing some vulnerability.
That's when you show that you understand your human nature.

Show Your Vulnerable Side

Remember when you were a child? Think of a time when you had to admit that you teased your little sister or niece.
Let's go back to the example of expressing your sexual desire because she did something you liked.
I recommend following that up by then saying that it's just your opinion and that you know what you said was inappropriate.
I also recommend having showing a vulnerable side to you with your body language and facial expressions.

Note: Accepting that something is inappropriate shows social awareness. That's different than saying you're sorry for what you said. That shows embarrassment for your desires which is bad if you want a woman to see you as a sexual being.
For more on how to properly do sexual seductions click on the link.

Sexual Body Language Is Your Ultimate Seduction Tool!

A quick recap.
step 1 - she does or says something you like
step 2 - you display sexual intent with your body and face and tell her it's because of something she just said or did
step 3 - she acknowledges it and either blushes or gives you a 'pervert' look (which is just to protect herself from getting turned on. Think 'Princess Leia in Empire Strikes Back'.) Or she says 'thank you' which is what a mature woman would do
step 4 - you show your vulnerable side and tell her that it's just your opinion
step 5 - you return to casual talk and repeat later on
This combination is a powerful way to seduce with your bodylanguage.
For more tips on how to seduce women in Korea I recommend joining out Meet Korean Women Newsletter.
You'll discover more about Korean culture and how to start seducing Korean women.
Have fun! ;-)